This has been an experience that I have had to continually encounter these last few weeks. I am just realizing how the level of our lessons changes as we ascend.
Our lessons used to be on a purely physical level. I have spent the last few weeks wondering why when others came around it kept lowering my vibration back to what I refer to as 3D. I was "in" another lesson, but one of different dimensions. COOL!
In the beginning, I allowed (I use those words now instead of another one being at "fault", as we now have responsibility for our own realities), anyways, I allowed my vibration to be affected by those around me. I had been operating in 5D or higher (when I am alone I hit wayyyyyyyy up there, and no idea where that is, or when in healing sessions). But lately, I've been drug back down to 3D for weeks it seems. I could raise my vibration then down again it would come. It was this never ending cycle.
Today I took the day off. I never have a day off. We "work" 24/7, as what we do is part of us. But we do have to re-charge and take better care of ourselves than we did before. As soon as I got some sleep and spent some time alone, I was right back up there! Yay, I am back!!!!!
Then something just happened to "bring back memories" of those low-vibrational episodes I used to experience as a child, like when the parents were fighting and we hid in the next room in fear. But this time it was so different. I realized "that is not my reality anymore". My response was completely different. I realize that my reality doesn't have to lower to meet the other person's reality. They can be angry, they can be whatever and I can maintain my vibration and continue my ascension without their reality affecting me. I can glow "love" when they are angry. I don't need to participate. I don't need to BE there anymore. I can allow them to experience however they need to experience and if I maintain a super high frequency then maybe theirs will raise. Doesn't matter, as we now exist in different realities in the same place. AMAZING!