Stories are that which we believe. Changing those beliefs are perceived as "impossible" until one steps out of their logical mind into the world of their own soul.
Here there is no lack, no judgment, no "have to be any way" at all. Here there is exactly what you choose it to be.
The process is the part that many "avoid", as it is in all's nature to do so. Our ego's (logical/thinking/rational minds) are put there for that purpose.
In order to change the way you think, in order to let go of the stories of that which you are not, you have to know that it is even possible. It is... we have all been there.
All you need is choice. And choice is free. The step one must make is to take it. ♥