One may seek in another that which they "need", but this is only filling a lack energy that exists within.
Pay attention to the thoughts you think or the words that you speak to see what you are transmitting to "call to you" by way of soul contracts.
The tricky ones are those who "trigger" all of our "stuff" within. They offer the most rewarding opportunities to learn and heal.
Soul Contracts teach us about ourselves. When one focuses on the other person, it allows the ego/logical mind to get lost in details that have nothing to do with the purpose.
So ask yourself, what do you seek in another that represents "lack" in your own energy?
In every moment, we are transmitters of frequencies .... what are you calling to you to learn?
Look at all of your exchanges, all of your relationships and see them from the perspective of your soul self. What are they there to show you about you? ♥ ♥ ♥