Separation is a perception that one maintains within. That separation translates outward in one's own reality.
That which is true to you will be felt in your body. It will be a knowing that does not waver. As you honor your own soul, your spirit, your truth... this will continue to grow and become stronger.
There will come a time where you don't have questions. Where you just "know" within all that you need to know. Have faith in that and until then ask questions so that you can find, and come to understand, your own reality, your own truth.
For awhile, the answers you seek will come from many sources outside of your own self. You will seek validation for those things that surface within. There comes a time when you will say "I get it and I understand it more than they do". This moment means that you do not understand it more than they, but you now understand it according to your own truth/reality. It is this moment that causes you to seek more to support that which you now understand.
Confusion comes from when you compromise that which you feel within. Many do this by way of their own rationalizations according to their logical mind or by intertwining with the reality of another.
As inner strength grows, one seeks less and less outside of themselves. Until then, one will look to others to tell them that which they need to know. The knowing is not "out there". It exists within. But the seeking outside serves the purpose of weeding out that which you do not resonate with until you can find that which you do.
When you can release all judgment of self and others, you will stand tall in that which you believe. You will not need to defend. For this too is an act of the ego mind creating more separation. You will trust, know inside, step forward & share your deepest experiences to help others come to now do the same. For you have "forgotten" that they are not "your" experiences, but one of a collective that you use to assist in the ascension of humanity as a whole. You no longer need to claim them and acknowledgement becomes one of honor and gratitude.
All truly exist within from a place of love, kindness and peace. It is the convoluted exterior that taints this, and it is what drives all on this journey of light to transcend. This distortion too is your own.
Your purity was never gone, just hidden and now it seeks to expand as the limiting physical falls away to accommodate this expansion.
That which you see outside of you is your own manifestation, your own reflection, your own beliefs and transmission of your own individual consciousness. Separation is yours and yours alone. Those outside of you fight their own separation within. Dark & light fall away, as this duality never truly existed, only in the realities of separation.
As you work to integrate more and continue to shift into higher vibrational frequencies, understandings change, interactions change, experiences change. This occurs because you have changed frequencies within.
You are all attuning to higher frequencies and must allow that which asks to go to go. Your attachment to it maintains it in your own reality. What awaits you is your own higher vibrational/dimensional self. You can only embrace this if you allow the lower vibrational self to fall away. YOU are creating your own limits by way of that which you claim as your own separateness, which reinforces your self as an individual being. That which defines you IS your own separateness.
There will come a time when trust is all you have, faith is all you know and reality is a thing you create. You will be tested repeatedly to get to the point where every moment is one of honesty, integrity and love. You will observe another and see you. You will look at yourself and see all others. Here all exist as one.