In talking with a friend a bit ago, she asked me "So would it hurt you to never see _________ again? (She was referring to someone near & dear to me, that I love more than ever.) And without hesitation I said "No. I understand, from a higher consciousness level, that my purpose here is much bigger than that. That the physical level stuff is so small in comparison; my soul is here for a specific reason, which no longer serves the physical realm needs. Besides, we all have contracts to fulfill, so anything ending is the fulfillment of a contract between two souls."
Then I got to thinking, wow. I no longer feel the need to accommodate anything physical. Not that I would not absolutely LOVE to share with someone who would love to share this experience with me on the same level of healing the world, but it is not something I seek. I don't seek things anymore. I'd like a roof over my head and a place/way to do what I do to help others, but my needs are so minimal now. My needs are now only to sustain and to be in-service. Everything else is just a plus.
Do I love laughter, beaches, dancing, nature... yes I sure do. But I don't NEED them to function anymore. We can find simple things to feed our spirit. (nature, laughter, sunshine, etc.) Most "things" are distractions at this point as I spend 24/7 helping/healing others. I breathe love and healing. I have such inner peace.